Our Life Now. Our Life with Children.
We
are open to adopting a boy or a girl who is Caucasian or
Caucasian-mixed race. Actually, we think it would be
interesting to celebrate many different cultures under one roof. We would prefer to bring a
younger child (newborn to 18 months) into our home, but feel
that we would be receptive to welcoming an older child into our
home in the future.
We were both raised in a Christian
environment. Todd was raised Greek Orthodox. Candice
was raised Baptist.
We have always discussed raising a child in a non-denominational Christian church.
We already have a number of things at
home to enrich children. Candice has a collection of
children’s books (she gives them to friends with children).
Some of her favorites are: Architecture Shapes /
Architecture Animals / Architectural Numbers /
Architectural Colors, Play with your food, If the
World Were a
Village, and The Lorax (by Dr. Seuss).
Above:
Candice with her cousins' kids posing for a shot after playing
all afternoon. They were the best of friends!
At left: Todd playing with his nephews in his sister's pool.
Since Candice likes to cook, there will be all sorts of "experiments" in the kitchen with children. Todd will, undoubtedly, play ball with the children. We have already talked about getting the back-pack child carrier for going hiking and can outfit our bikes with a child carrier on the back as well. We want the children to explore the outdoors as much as possible. The pond in the back yard will be the beginning of their explorations!
We understand that kids (more than
likely) do not want to look
at buildings; we are planning more family-oriented vacations in
the future. We will take them camping, skiing, and hiking… but
will occasionally slip in
a little “culture”
Regarding homework, Candice will cover
science, math, music, and English / writing. Todd is
stronger in
history and geography and will help out with those studies.
Both will participate in art lessons.
We will encourage the child to take
on up to one extra-curricular activity at a time -- such as
sports, theater, ballet, or horse-back riding. It seems
hard to focus on each child if shuffling around to too many
sporting or dance recital events every night of the week.
The two would like to engage in the practice of having a
family dinner every night.
There are two playgrounds within
walking distance. One has a pint-sized train and slide
that kids crawl all over. The other is next to a softball
field, tennis courts, and a
dog-run. We will walk (or
bike) to the park on weekends and play. We both look forward to taking kids to pick
apples in
Above photo: Neighbor kids feeding the fish
At left: We are teaching Todd's nephew, Nathaniel, to kick a ball on his first birthday.